Flirt in our working life

All we have done at least once. A winning smile and negotiate a large sale. A joke with our neighbor to the bartender of the desk or morning coffee. That certain tone of voice when asking for help for a project ...
The employees of the subtle art of seduction knows that blink or launch a penetrating gaze can be a form of social power, sometimes useful to secure an advantage or an ally. Nicole Williams, author of gilr on top, claiming the use of all available tools to gain ground at work, including this one. "Flirt?" The author writes, "I call it efficiency."

Even in the academic world is increasingly willing to give value to the power of sex. The sociologist C. Hakim, a professor at the LSE and author of Erotic Ecomincs Capital: The Power of Attracion in the Boardroom and the Bedroom, believes that the erotic capital is the fourth human resource with economic, social, and cultural . Defines capital as a kind of erotic attraction and physical and social claims that it is a manifestation of flirting. "Having the knowledge includes charismatic flirt and when appropriate, especially in these times, one would expect from charismatic leaders."

"Flirting is to imply the possibility, but not the probability that something could happen between two people sexually," says psychologist S. Rego, Head of the Cognitive Behavior Therapy Program at Montefiore Medical Center in New York. It expresses the tone of voice, pauses, glances, posture, body language and word games.

However, if flirting can sometimes make us get a discount, a customer or earn a commission so desired, can also easily make us vulnerable, because of the misunderstanding of our attitude and the stigma that is. Flirt to get any advantage is like playing with fire and may expose us to very unpleasant unintended consequences.

What do you think? Do you have a story to tell about it?

Time for shopping!

We go shopping. This time will be special shopping. Underwear!
Sexy, sexy, sensual. The black is all time classic, but white on the blackened skin, summer is really what you need to raise the temperature to. Preferred lace or what you like most.
Whether related or not the pants always give an erotic essence at your disposal. The underwear is a personal matter. A woman who respects herself and is dressed outside and inside.
If you want to get away from traditional choices dared something colorful. The fashion in favor and find all colors and all shades.

Women Get out with your girlfriends ...

women have t arrange once a while an evening to dedicate to her friends.
Psychologists point out that it is a basic need in a couple, the partners while maintaining the relationship and the"independence", their lives.
It is not right all you people to be your partner. It is wrong to spend all day together. So, one evening a week to arrange something with your friends. It is good to you, I will extend good will and respect.
You go out, celebrate, change air and this post will transport and in your relationship. I'll miss you, will give him some space and time to do something and he thanked him and all this to be sure it will workpositively.
PS When you go out, do not start the phones and emails. I said, the evening is devoted to her friends!

Self-esteem and empathy make sex better

Self confidence makes better sex
A new study published in the journal «Journal of Adolescent Health» finds that people can interact and better understand the feelings of other people are likely to have satisfactory sexual life.
Personal characteristics such as self esteem and autonomy, also play a role in sexual pleasure and health.
In the research of the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health reported that sexual health includes sexual wellbeing and sexual pleasure is an important part of it. The method of interaction between people, their ability to hear words of each other and understand their advancement prospects can really affect their sex lives.
The study came to these conclusions analyzed data from about 3,200 students, aged from 18 to 26, surveyed during the period 2001 to 2002, under the third phase of the National longitudinal Survey of Adolescent Health.
Studying sexual satisfaction, respondents answered questions aimed at
• assessing the levels of autonomy, self-esteem and emotional understanding
• as well as sexual health and satisfaction about sex.
The autonomy and self-esteem, according to the research , defined as the power was followed by personal beliefs, even when they are contrary to conventional wisdom, which often grows into adulthood.The possibility of empathy is the ability to perceive one's outlook of others, ie to see things from another perspective and to understand and respond to the feelings of his companions.
The study found that men 87% were more inclined than women, with respective 47%, indicating that they have an orgasm most of the time or always during sex. The study also demonstrated that men enjoy more oral sex from their partners.
When the researchers compared the personality traits with measures of sexual satisfaction, namely:
• frequency of orgasm
• the level of enjoyment for providing and receiving oral sex
found that higher levels of self-esteem, autonomy and empathy were associated more with greater overall sexual pleasure in women, while men had an impact only empathy.
According to the above, the feeling in the bedroom helps people with emotional understanding to meet the needs of their partner and thus begins a positive cycle of retribution.
These developmental benefits may be more important for sexual pleasure young women, since they help to break the barriers of communication and sexual exploration, according to the research, referring to the concept that women are more "limited" in the bedroom than than men.

Man, gene mutations and infertility

Friday, September 2, 2011,A new study claims to have found a new factor that contributes to male infertility, a protein that supposedly surrounds the sperm like a coat to help it to swim towards the egg.
Approximately 20% of men can carry gene mutations that allow sperm without the presence of this protein and thus have reduced their fertility. The reproductive tests today can not identify the problem, according to study leader, Dr. TheodoreTollner University of California.
Anywhere in the world than a 10% to 15% of couples live the experience of infertility and doctors can not always find the cause.The lack of sperm count or problems with their shape or ability to move only explain a part of infertility.
This research group has found a new reason, a protein that is part of a family of proteins responsible for the death of microbes and the surfaces are a variety of organic tissue. Secreted when the trip starts of sperm in the female reproductive system and helps the sperm penetrate the mucus present in the cervix of the woman and to avoid treatment as an invader by the immune system. If no specific double gene mutation manifests the lack of overlap.
Sperm in the laboratory that did not have this protein coating difficult (to varying degrees) to penetrate the mucus.
But how is affected fertility?
The researchers followed 500 newly married couples trying to conceive. The birth rate was 30% lower among couples where the husband had a double mutation, the researchers reported in the journal «Science Translational Medicine».
Having only one copy of the mutated gene does not seem to prevent conception. The non-coated seed is not certain that you will always fail, so it is unclear how much this contributes to male infertility altogether.
But creating a test for the diagnosis of these men is easy, according to researchers. Such a review could potentially help faster choice of assisted reproduction, saving money and valuable time in the infertile couple.